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victor

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You don’t find yourself once. You come back to yourself, over and over again.

If there is anything I’m learning, it’s this: your worth is not so...

You don’t find yourself once. You come back to yourself, over and over again.

If there is anything I’m learning, it’s this: your worth is not something you have to convince the world of. It’s something you carry. Something you live.

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Leave or stay?

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You don’t have to be sorry for leaving and growing up.

Leaving doesn’t mean you don’t care. It doesn’t mean you are ungrateful. And it doesn’t m...

You don’t have to be sorry for leaving and growing up.

Leaving doesn’t mean you don’t care. It doesn’t mean you are ungrateful. And it doesn’t mean you are forgetting everything that has shaped you.

Sometimes, leaving is just a gentle way of choosing yourself.

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Stockdale Paradox

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When you control your expectations, the ups and downs don’t shake you.

We can’t plan life like an “ideal Friday night.” The best scenarios are s...

When you control your expectations, the ups and downs don’t shake you.

We can’t plan life like an “ideal Friday night.” The best scenarios are statistical anomalies, not the baseline. Trusting in them leads to disappointment. Wisdom lies in combining hope with realism — setting the bar high, while knowing it won’t be easy to reach.

Aim for a good ending, but don’t forget how hard the road is.

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